How to deal when the “What if’s” attack…

How to deal when the “What if’s” attack…

It’s late at night. You’re trying to sleep. Something major has happened, or is going to happen. Maybe you’ve left (or are leaving) your job. Maybe you’ve gotten fired or laid off. Maybe you’ve left (or want to leave) your relationship. Maybe it’s everything, all at once. Everything is changing. There they are, in the back of your mind all day. You try to focus. At night, when you’re walls have come down, they rise up like a flood and…

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Don’t “buy” into thinking THIS is what Abundance Consciousness is…

Don’t “buy” into thinking THIS is what Abundance Consciousness is…

You know how I like to put things under the microscope, right? I question a lot of concepts and theories that are popular – mainly through running them through my experience, and then seeing if they hold up. I see a lot out there on abundance consciousness vs. scarcity – and there’s this enduring myth (aka total B.S.) that if you have abundance consciousness you’ll have a lot of money, and if you have scarcity consciousness you won’t have any….

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Strip Down and Wake UP – What IS Surrender?

Strip Down and Wake UP – What IS Surrender?

I’m a little greasy in this one. I had just gotten home from the gym – and I had something to say about Surrender, so I decided to forego the shower and just sit down and shoot this thing. I’m exploring surrender in my life, and I’m finding that I’m consistently humbled and surprised by what the experience of surrender actually feels like in practice. In this episode of Strip Down and Wake Up (yowza!) I’m sharing with you: =>What setting goals…

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Strip Down and Wake Up + video: Stop Demonizing the Masculine

Strip Down and Wake Up + video: Stop Demonizing the Masculine

Well, now I’m calling my talks “Strip Down and Wake Up” – honoring not only the process of what waking up is, but the fact that yes, I used to be a stripper, and well – it’s my journey summed up. I also have learned that waking up is ENTIRELY about stripping down. Bit by bit, brick by brick, all of those bullshit ideas about yourself and the world that don’t actually exist come crashing down. When then do, underneath…

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Saying that the feminine energy is BETTER… oh don’t get me started.

Saying that the feminine energy is BETTER… oh don’t get me started.

I’m going to make a video on the feminine and masculine energy soon, because I’m seeing SO much that is celebrating the feminine and at the same time – demonizing the masculine – and that is JUST as destructive. A pendulum swing on either side is unbalanced and lacks the magic that comes from ****integration.***** It’s not your brain that’s the key to unlocking all of your wisdom. It’s also not your “pussy” and your female energy that’s going to…

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Embracing the Death Energy – My Story

Embracing the Death Energy – My Story

Just recently, in meditation, I was “told” to make room for the experience of death to come in and bring something healing with it. A couple of days later, there it was. In this video, I’m going to share my story with the death energy – because, honestly – it never even occurred to me to bring it into my life, but I’m so glad I did. Love to hear your thoughts and comments below.

Boundaries – Where Do They Come From?

Boundaries – Where Do They Come From?

Here we are, back with a new episode of Awakening Talks!  Today I’m talking about Boundaries – and where they come from. Often, we get so focused on HOW to set boundaries, that we don’t look any deeper into the CAUSE of good boundaries.  This is what you can cause you to “slip” and have days where you feel like your boundaries are crossed left and right – which can keep you feeling tired, resentful and even guilty. I hope…

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The 3 biggest ways that women B.S. each other – and why this is crazy important right now

The 3 biggest ways that women B.S. each other – and why this is crazy important right now

Ok. I’ll say it. This may not be a fun topic, but it’s a really, really freakin’ important one, because this is a big thing that I believe holds some women back from more power positions in our world. **Disclaimer – this is nothing more than me sharing an observation, what I have seen with my experience, my filters, my history, and my values.  I’m not saying I’m right, just offering something that I believe will be valuable. If you agree,…

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If you’re a coach, what’s your objective? This is the wrong one.

If you’re a coach, what’s your objective? This is the wrong one.

If the objective of your coaching business is to make 6-figures or more, then you should get out of the coaching business. You’re missing the point of it. If your objective is to be a great coach, and work with people to transform their lives, and help them achieve a tangible change… You’re willing to try new things, to f*ck up, to learn from your mistakes and apply them… And, your coaching really works for people… Then, you’ll probably make…

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